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Unfortunately, I think that a lot of people feel very befuddled as to how to deal with racism/white privilege. I certainly know that I've got some racist thoughts bouncing around in my subconscious, if only because sometimes I examine my assumptions about people and realize that they aren't quite right. On the other hand, it feels like some attitudes to take are unnecessarily "politically correct," and others are too far not politically correct, if you know what I mean. Most of all, it's impossible to escape the world of white privilege. I can't even imagine what life would look like. I wish I could. But it feels so hopeless. All I can do is keep correcting my assumptions, but it feels like a losing battle.
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In first grade I made a B on a test. My first grade teacher (named Mrs. Shearhouse if you are out there) told me that this was very very good for a “black boy.” WTF!!! Here is my take on this issue. White privilege is a collection of stereotypes, perceptions, and assumptions about minorities that are true until proven otherwise. And when a minority individual performs above and beyond the stereotype, perception, or assumption then white privilege now holds that person in a higher regard as a credit to his/her race or an example for others of his/her race to follow. And therein lays the problem. The stereotype, perception, or assumption is never invalidated. There is now an exception to the rule but in general the stereotype, perception, or assumption still stands solid. I have never felt that I have been held back or denied an opportunity because I my race. I do not play the race card. But I will never know the full comfort of just being ME because somehow there is always someone who acts or reacts in a way to remind me that white privilege does exist, that I am a minority, and that everything I do, succeed or fail, I am representing not just me but my entire race.

[esto es genial]
i think this one is especially relevant to our discussion last night:

27. I can go home from most meetings of organizations I belong to feeling somewhat tied in, rather than isolated, out-of-place, outnumbered, unheard, held at a distance or feared.

(although, for the record, i've never felt feared in my life. not even if i might want to be...rather, i'm morinclined to feel like i'm not being taken seriously.)
It took me a while to read this fully, but now that I have I guess I will be the naysayer. I find this piece to be highly problematic, and even offensive.

To start with, I don't deny that racism is alive and well in our society, in many ways. After all, we're only 40-50 years removed from the civil rights movement, and change takes time. Beyond that, to not be a racist is very difficult because it runs contrary to human nature. Human intelligence is, at its most basic level, about pattern recognition. Ever take an IQ test? All pattern recognition. So if we see three white people, or three African-Americans, or three Mexicans, and they all do the same thing, it is our nature to perceive a pattern. And we have to work very hard not to be guided by that perception, by what we would call--in the case of race--a stereotype. So I an in agreement with her point in a general sense. That said, I find this piece to be very unhelpful. I find it to be reactionary and manipulative, and not a constructive contribution to the debate on race. It comes off as an attack on white people, and that is no way to open eyes that are closed.

There are a lot of specific recurring problems I see with the various items on the list, and I will point out some of them, with examples.

The author writes, "I can be pretty sure that if I ask to talk to the 'person in charge,' I will be facing a person of my race." I think this demonstrates hypocrisy on the part of the author. She says in one item that it's racist to believe that one person's experiences represent the experience of a whole race, and yet she then presumes with her whole list--and this item in particular--that her experiences are representative of white people. Speaking for myself, I have two jobs. At one, the "person in charge" is half-Japanese, half-African American. And at the other, the "person in charge" is Latino. I know many, many Latinos, African-Americans, Asian-Americans, and other minority group members in positions of authority. Just because she hasn't seen it doesn't mean I have.

The author writes, "I can talk with my mouth full and not have people put this down to my color." This is one of many examples that I find to be outright bizarre. Does ANYONE ever attribute talking with one's mouth full to the perpetrator's race? They attribute it to bad manners. I mean, there are certainly some negative stereotypes associated with various races. But is eating with one's mouth full--or bad table manners in general--really one of them?

The author writes, "Whether I use checks, credit cards or cash, I can count on my skin color not to work against the appearance of financial reliability." This is one of MANY examples on the list that I find to be anachronistic. No doubt, 40 years ago, someone might get their check or credit card rejected because of race. But does this EVER happen today? I just don't see how it could, even if business owners had the inclination. To begin with, these decisions are usually made by cashiers, aka peons who don't give a damn if the business loses money on a bad transaction. Second, the system is currently built to make fraud almost impossible. If you can do the minimum necessary to, say, write a check--basically show ID--is any value judgment ever made? Does anyone ever say, yeah, you showed your ID, but I don't trust you? There is no need to make such judgments--the system provides the necessary protection. I just can't imagine it these days.

The author writes, "I can go into a music shop and count on finding the music of my race represented..." This is one of many examples that is simply inaccurate. Has this person EVER been to a music store? I don't think I've ever been in a music store that did not have rap music by African American artists, and Stevie Wonder, and Richie Valens, and Motown music, and Jimi Hendrix, and Salsa music, and so forth. Is there ANY music store that only sells stuff by white artists? In fact, rap is the best-selling genre in American music today. And most rappers are African-Americans.

The author writes, "When I am told about our national heritage or about "civilization," I am shown that people of my color made it what it is." I find this personally offensive. I am a history teacher, and I can assure you that I--and every other modern-day history teacher out there--find plenty of time for minority contributions to American civilization. Yes, I talk about Roosevelt, and Patton, and Edison. But I also talk about NWA, and Martin Luther King, Jr., and Cesar Chavez, and Fred Korematsu, and Jane Addams, and other people who are not white males.

It is possible that this author could have used her approach to make a valuable point. But by tinging her analysis with such a negative tone, she turns people off. And by making statements that are simply ridiculous--like the one about the music stores--she undermines confidence in the rest of her assertions, which leaves me disinclined to consider them carefully.

Oh, and let me say one more thing. I have been in many situations where I was the minority--in terms of race, class, religion, gender--and I sometimes felt uncomfortable. So a lot of the things she speaks of are not just limited to people of color.
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Thank you all for your thoughts! My friend and I have read and thought about your comments and would now like to respond to everyone.

@ ms. bunburyist
I agree that racism/white privilege is a difficult thing to deal with because it is so immersed in our culture. It's unrealistic to expect inequalities to completely go away in the near future by it happening cold turkey, by expecting one entire race of people to become altruistic, or another to singlehandedly bootstrap themselves into equality. That's not the way the world works these days. It's mainly why I included the second quote. It's something everyone has to work together to improve. I wish everyone could be proactive as you by examining assumptions.

@Blackhawk
Yes! No one really wants to be that racial pioneer one who's constantly inducing 'a ha, so it is true about *insert group here*', 'that's very good for a *insert group here*', or, 'So, '*insert group here* people are not like that after all!' epiphanies about their race simply trying to live day to day. How draining is that? Some people deal with this either by being a superachiever (hence inducing the credit for their race comments) or they such say screw it I'm just going to act the stereotype since it's how society expects me to be anyway. Good point.

@ romi:
I hear you.

@ floydpink
From my friend (who doesn't have a Vox of his own):
"The writer is basing her observations on her own life and does not speak for everyone, only herself. However that does not mean that her ideas do not apply to others. As for you, Sir, you seem to be an exception to the rule. You shouldn't be arguing that these statements do not apply to you, you should be asking yourself why there are not more folk like you."

From me: Sadly, I had a dearth of non-European history in school while growing up, until high school. I feel like that sort of public school history education is typical for people in their late 20s and older, and not just me slipping through the cracks. People like you and your colleagues should have been my teachers.

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